July 2026

Welcome to the journal

A small space for reflections written between sessions — on therapy, culture, identity, and the relationships we live inside.

Hello, and welcome. This journal is a place where I'll share occasional short pieces of writing — not clinical advice, but reflections on the themes that come up again and again in therapy.

Some of these will grow out of my background in anthropology: how culture shapes what we feel entitled to want, who we're allowed to grieve for, what counts as a "real" family or a "proper" relationship. Others will be simpler — a thought about anxiety, or beginnings, or the strange courage it takes to send that first email to a therapist.

I hope to write once a month or so. Nothing here is a substitute for therapy itself, and nothing here will ever draw on the stories of people I work with. But if something you read resonates, and you'd like to talk, you're always welcome to get in touch.

— Irene

Dr Irene M C Soldavini

Dr Irene M C Soldavini BACP-registered counsellor and relationships therapist, working online across the UK and walk-and-talk in Edinburgh, in English and Italian.

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